Having a top in a relationship can mean different things to different people. Some are submissive, others are power-hungry, and still others are stone-hearted. There are also different bottoms: stone, power, and switch.
Stone bottoms
Those who aren’t familiar with the Stone bottoms in a relationship phenomenon are likely to be left confused. The name itself combines two sex-related terms (top and bottom) that often have very different connotations. In a romantic setting, a top will typically be more dominant and a bottom will be more submissive. If this is the case, the best course of action is to make the two partners happy.
The best way to do this is to communicate. One person’s idea of a sexually compatible act is another person’s idea of a sexually incompatible act. A good starting point is to have an honest and open discussion about what each partner wants out of the relationship. There are many benefits to having an open and honest dialogue, including increased trust, better communication, and a more satisfying sex experience.
The best way to show respect for your partner’s preferences is to set boundaries before, during, and after sex. Although most tops and bottoms are interested in the same sex acts, not all tops are compatible with all bottoms.
Submissive bottoms
Having a submissive bottom is a great way to enjoy your sexual relationship. It can be fun and exciting to enjoy sex with a submissive partner, and being able to tap out can be a lot of fun. However, it’s important to make sure that you’re not dominating your partner.
A submissive is a woman who enjoys giving up her control and surrendering her self to the other person in an agreed-upon scene. This may start as a young child in diapers with a pacifier. It could also be an adult who appreciates having someone take care of them.
A bottom is a person who is on the receiving end in a BDSM (Boyfriends / Dominant / Sexual M/M) scene. The top is the person who is giving. Some men like to play both roles in a relationship.
There are some people who prefer to be the top. They enjoy the feeling of being in control in bed, while others like to be the submissive. The difference is that the top usually tries to control the penetrative experience, while the bottom is more willing to receive.
Power bottoms
Whether you’re a top or a bottom, everyone has a leader and a follower. Whether you prefer to be in control of your own sex or just lie back and enjoy the company, you’ll have to learn a few things about power dynamics before you can get the most out of your sex. Besides learning the basics of foreplay and bottoming, there are a few other things you should know.
One of the first things you should know about power is that it doesn’t just apply to kinksters. It applies to any guy who’s looking for a good time.
You should also know that not all sides are compatible with each other. Some people prefer to be in control and penetrating, while others would rather lie back and relax. This doesn’t mean you’ll get what you want if you only like being in control, but it’s helpful to know what types of partners you’d be better off with.
If you’re a top, you’ll appreciate being in charge of the sex. During sex, you’ll have the freedom to emote and make demands. Getting a sex partner who doesn’t always want to be in control can be stressful. You don’t have to give up on being in control, but you should make it clear what you expect.
Switches
Whether you’re a lesbian or a bisexual transwoman, you can enjoy being a top. Many people like to switch roles, especially if they enjoy sexual dominance.
Dominant tops are more aggressive during sex, while submissive bottoms follow the lead of the top. However, both sides can have the same needs and pleasures in a relationship. Getting consent is important for BDSM plays.
Switches enjoy being a top or a bottom, and they may enjoy both roles in different scenes. A switch is a person who derives equal enjoyment from being a dominant top or a submissive bottom. The switch’s role can be fun and liberating for both parties.
If you’re a switch, try sharing your fantasies with your partner. This can be a nonjudgmental conversation. It can help you both find your personal sexuality. You might discover that you’re more interested in being a submissive bottom or a top, or that you’re not interested in any of the roles at all.