Men who crossdress often find themselves feeling isolated from friends and family. This is largely because there is still a great deal of stigma and misunderstanding around cross-dressing.
Many people assume that crossdressers are gay or have some sort of sexual deviancy. This can cause anxiety for partners and make it difficult to discuss their crossdressing with others.
1. Social media
Having social media accounts like Instagram, Facebook and Twitter is one way for cross-dressers to share their hobby with the world. They can use their account to show off the outfits they wear or just post photos of themselves.
People who cross-dress often refer to themselves as transgender, although they may also be comfortable with their assigned gender. The DSM-5 defines transvestism as recurrent, intense sexual arousal from wearing clothes associated with the other sex. It’s usually only diagnosed when it causes distress or interferes with functioning and lasts for at least six months.
It’s important to differentiate between fetishistic disorder and transvestism because the two have similar symptoms. In fetishistic disorder, the person is turned on by apparel and fabrics — not just the cross-dressing outfits themselves. They may fantasize about them and try to reproduce them, which could lead to other behaviors that disrupt their life. They’re not necessarily a danger to their loved ones, but they need help managing their behavior.
2. Events and gatherings
Depending on where you live, there are a lot of different events and gatherings that are crossdressing friendly. These events can be an excellent way to meet other members of the community in a safe and non-judgmental environment.
You can also attend a convention that is specifically for transgender and gender expansive people. These events are often held in large cities and will allow you to socialize with other members of the community. They can also serve as a place where you can display your art reflecting different fandoms and interests.
Another great event to attend is an anime convention. Anime conventions are popular among the LGBT community and allow crossdressers to be themselves in a safe environment. They can even participate in cosplay, which is the practice of dressing up as characters from a fictional universe.
3. Support groups
In a world where cross dressing can often be misunderstood, and even feared it can be very challenging to find a social circle that embraces this aspect of life. Many people find their best support in a transgender support group. There are a number of groups that can be found online or at local LGBTQ centers. One of the largest is called Crossdresser Heaven and has lots of information, links and resources for those interested.
Another great place to meet people is at the popular Reddit forum, which has a number of communities that cater to those who enjoy this activity. Including the r/crossdressing and r/transsupport communities. Some of these groups also have monthly meetings. Spouses and significant others are welcome to attend the meetings as well. These meetings are generally open for discussion on a range of topics that transgender people face every day. They are a wonderful resource for those who need it.
4. Relationships
A crossdressing friend can be a great support system and can help you feel more comfortable in your transition. They can also help you find the right accoutrements to enhance your femme look. This can include wigs, makeup, clothing and more. They can be especially helpful if you’re just starting out, and it’s often easier to borrow, steal or rent these items rather than buy them.
You can meet other crossdressers on social media, at events and gatherings or in support groups. The important thing is that you have a trusted, supportive and understanding person in your life.
One popular website that celebrates trans people is FriendFinderX, which has a large community and many options for meeting crossdressers. They offer a free basic account and a paid option that lets you view private photos and use the site’s chat features. The site also offers a supportive and safe environment for those who are new to the experience.
