The best way to achieve orgasm is by combining multiple erogenous zones. Combining stimulation from multiple zones is called combination masturbation. It can be done by hand or sex toy.
For a better result, you can experiment with different strokes and touches. It can also be used in combination with multiple stimulations such as clitoris stroking and spoon dipping.
Experimenting with different strokes
Most men tend to use their default stroke during sex, but this could leave them under-prepared for the stimulation provided by their partner. Experimenting with different strokes while masturbating is a great way to learn more exciting strokes and help you get off on the right foot with your partner. Try different strokes like twisting, pulling, bouncing on a mounted dildo, and cunnilingus.
Using a spoon
Using a spoon to masturbaty is an old-fashioned method for creating intimacy. Using the spoon against the clitoris is not sexual, and it should not be inserted into the vagina. Instead, you should lubricate the back of the spoon with petroleum jelly, and rub the spoon against your clitoris. It’s also a good idea to wash your spoon thoroughly after use, as it could irritate your intimate area.
Combining stimulation from multiple erogenous zones
Combining stimulation from multiple erogenous areas to masturbate can intensify the sex experience and increase arousal levels. Most men have several erogenous zones, so it is essential to stimulate them all. Besides, your partner will be more sexually attracted to you if you combine stimulation from various erogenous zones. For this, it is important to discuss sexual preferences with your partner before starting the masturbation.
Various types of erogenous areas offer different degrees of pleasure. You can experiment with different erogenous zones and try out different types of touch to see which one works best for your partner. If you’re not comfortable with the sensation, talk to your partner about it and try it out in a private place. You can also use lubricants and toys to increase the stimulation. Another way to stimulate your partner is by playing with temperature. You can try trailing an ice cube around his/her navel or tracing your tongue along the back of his/her neck.
Taking a rest after an orgasm
It’s normal to want to rest after an orgasm. It’s natural to feel tired after a great sex, and your partner may be ready to take a nap. However, some women report that they are so recharged that they can tackle the world again. A rest after an orgasm may be just what you need to recoup your energy. This article will discuss some of the reasons why you should rest after a good orgasm.
After an orgasm, a man’s body needs time to recover. This is known as the refractory period. The brain will release a variety of hormones, including serotonin. Dopamine levels also drop, and the brain begins the recovery process. This can last for a few seconds or up to 24 hours. This is normal, and it doesn’t have to be an unpleasant thing.
Avoiding masturbation as a substitute for partnered sex
Despite the negative connotations of masturbation, there are certain instances in which it is appropriate and acceptable to engage in sex in lieu of partnered sex. For example, if your partner is sick and not in the mood to have sex, masturbation is an acceptable solution. Similarly, if your partner has higher frequency of sexual desire than yours, masturbation can fill the void.
One study evaluated whether abstinence from masturbation could improve sexual self-regulation and enhance one’s social life. While it was associated with lower trust in science, stronger religious beliefs, and more conservative attitudes, abstinence motivation was found to be significantly correlated with increased perceived impact of masturbation on sexuality and health. However, the study’s limitations should not be read as a complete guide to reducing the need for sex.